Friday 27 September 2013

Tazkirah : Life of a believer~

Life of a believer:

When you are hurt by the people who share blood relations with you, recall Yusuf [alayhi salaam] who was also betrayed by his brothers.

When you find your parents opposing you (in deen) recall Ibraheem [alayhi salaam] who was made to jump into a blazing fire by his father.

When you are mocked and abused by your own relatives just because you adopted deen over duniya, recall Rasul Allah [sallalhu alaihi wa sallam] who faced the same.

When you are stuck into some problem and find no way out recall Yunus [alayhi salaam] who was stuck inside the belly of a whale.

When you fall ill and your whole body cries with pain, recall Ayoob [alayhi salaam] who was more ill than you.

When you see some physical fault in yourself, recall Moosa [alayhi salam] who could not properly speak.

When someone slanders you, recall Ay'esha [radiallahu anha] who was also slandered throughout the city.

When you feel lonely recall how Adam [alayhi salaam] felt when he was created alone at first.

When you can't see any logic in what's going on and your heart asks why this is happening, recall Nooh [alayhi salaam] who built the biggest ship without questioning.

Subhan Allah! Allah put all those great personalities in trial so that the generations to follow may learn a lesson in patience and perseverance. May Allah swt include us among His patient and grateful servants. Ameen! -



[source: whatsapp, I didn't write this on my own :) ]

Tuesday 24 September 2013

husband & wife....

Having a life partner has always been mind boggling to me.

Does other couple face the same problem we had? or do they love each other so much like we do? has always been part of the questions when we first got married.

I tried to bench mark our relationship based on looking at other people's relationship (mainly those closes to us i.e. my parents, his parents, my grandparents etc) and I tried comparing how we were before we were married and how romantic it seems some of his action were back then.

Can we always make a standard statement on how husband and wife should or would act? I saw books are being produced based on these and after reading a few I saw some of them as true.

I was curious I guessed.

But along the way, I learnt that every couple is unique on its own and although some solution may work in someone's relationship, it may not work in yours.

I must say that it took me some time to get use to things as I was so comfortable being just me...now we are us and I hope we will always be (without loosing our own individual us of course).

Because no matter how things are at the beginning of the day (or middle)

Source: Google
at the end, I'm so glad I have someone to hold on to and cuddle and kisses at the end of the day.

Source: Google

En. Ali, although teddy bears scares the shit out of me, you are my personal teddy :*

p/s: I feel so guilty posting this during office hours :p

Tuesday 17 September 2013

2 months 3 days to go :)


Daisypath Wedding tickers

We were engaged on this very same date 2 years ago and had only 2 months and 3 days to prepare ourselves for the Big Day!

For this year's wedding Anniversary, we will be spending it on board a 7 hours flight to attend another wedding down under and it'll be another honeymoon for the both of us *love*

and Yes, we have another 2 months to prepare for that trip as well :)

I pray that for our 3rd Anniversary, we will be blessed with a little angel or two.

I started taking new pills today and will go to a full medical check up in November.

Praying for positive results :)

Currently motivating myself to change my diet, improve my relationship with Allah and exercise!

Hopefully my spirit will not wear off until Allah blessed us with that special someone.

-xoxo-